I Try To Remember

ASSALAMUALAIKUM

As usual, I love to spend my free times reading a Chicken Soup for the Soul book. Seriously, I really loves reading this kind of books. If you interested on buying this book, just search for it at Popular Bookstores or MPH also can. And this time, a writing had caught my soul when reading it. (LOL, cliche..)

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1. EVERYBODY DOESN'T HAVE TO LOVE ME

Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don't necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved, but if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me, any more than someone can get me to like them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve me, I will still be okay.

2. IT IS OKAY TO MAKE MISTAKES

Making mistakes is something we all do, and I am still a fine and worthwhile person when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am trying, and if I make a mistake, I am going to continue trying. I can handle making a mistake. It is okay for others to make mistakes, too. I will accept mistakes in myself and also mistakes that others make.

3. OTHER PEOPLE ARE OKAY AND I AM OKAY

People who do things I don't like are not necessarily bad people. They should not necessarily be punished just because I don't like what they do or did. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be. People will be whatever they want to be, and I will be whatever I want to be. I cannot control other people or change them. They are who they are, we all deserve basic respect.

4. I DON'T HAVE TO CONTROL THINGS

I will survive if things are different than what I want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, and accept myself the way I am. There is no reason to get upset if I can't change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be. There is no reason why I should have to like everything. Even I don't like it, I can live with it.

5. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY DAY

I am responsible for how I feel and what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything. If I have a rotten day, I am the one who allowed it to be that way. If I have a great day, I am the one who deserves credit for being positive. It is not the responsibility of other people to change so that I can feel better. I am the one who is in charge of my life.

6. I CAN HANDLE IT WHEN THINGS GO WRONG

I don't need to watch out for things to go wrong. Things usually go just fine, and when they don't, I can handle it. I don't have to waste my energy worrying. The sky won't fall in, things will be okay.

7. IT IS IMPORTANT TO TRY

I can. Even though I may be faced with difficult tasks, it is better to try than to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not give me any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does. Things worth having are worth the effort. I might not be able to do everything, but I can do something.

8. I AM CAPABLE

I don't need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take care of myself. I can make decisions for myself. I can think for myself. I don't have to depend on somebody else to take care of me.

9. I CAN CHANGE

I don't have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past. Every day is a new day. It's silly to think I can't help being the way I am. Of course I can. I can change.

10. OTHER PEOPLE ARE CAPABLE

I can't solve other people's problems for them. I don't have to take on other people's problems as if they were my own. I don't need to change other people or fix up their lives. They are capable and can take care of themselves, and can solve their own problems. I can care and be of some help, but I can't do everything for them.

11. I CAN BE FLEXIBLE

There is more than one way to do something. More than one person has had good ideas that will work. There is no one and only "best" way. Everybody has ideas that are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but everyone's ideas are worthwhile, and everyone had something worthwhile to contribute.

Author Unknown

Submitted by Allison Stevenson

In Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul

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I wish, I am strong enough to be a person like above. I wish, I have gut to face all the hatred given by my surroundings. I wish, I didn't have to go to the toilet to let my tears falling down. I wish, people will understand me.. But I know, that will never happen.

Life to your fullest, cause ...

NOTE : whatever it is, just be.. yourself. >_<

Insane Like A Human

ASSALAMUALAIKUM

lamanya hahh tak jengah blog ni . dah berzaman-zaman dah rasanya . suddenly , my fingers move on their own and open up my computer just to update an entry for today . ya , i've been talking in english a lot nowadays . tapi tu bukan sebab aku update blog ni pun . takde kaitan pun sebenarnya . LMAO

it's started when i nak sangat beli paper bag sebab i've found some of these lunch bag printables by Mique . siang malam tak tidur hengkau sebab terfikirkan pasal benda alah ni . starting from day , saya pun jadi seorang yang eco - friendly . LOL . tapi susah giler nak dapatkan bag ni kat malaysia . especially kat daerah yang tak berapa famous ni . kat bp ni kan orang dah biasa pakai plastic bag , so memang jaranglah orang jual paper bag macam ni . 

balik sekolah je tadi , merengek-rengek nak pi summit sebab nak cari kat kedai MR. DIY . mana tahulah kan ada jual kat situ . setelah menjelajah dari satu isle ke satu isle yang lain , tak jumpa . tanya akak kat kedai tu pun dia kata takde . hampa giler perasaan . so , aku pun heretlah kakiku dengan high heelsnya ni pergi ahh kedai watson . saje je pi sana sebab dah sedih tak dapat paper bag . last-last , beli lah jugak sikit barang from there .

pergilah kat bahagian mask , mana tahu ada yang menarik perhatian ke . lagipun , mine one dah abis kat rumah . jalan-jalan , sentuh-sentuh sikit apa yang kat rak tu , sekali tertacap kat mask ni . oh myyy !! it's Montagne Jeunesse mask !! lol , i sound like a pathetic . bukan apa , terkejut je sebab mask ni yang Aaroosa Malik pakai . who is she ? Zayn's cousin . okay stop with the 1D things .

and then , i found this one ! okay nampak pelik kan sebab it is a petroleum jelly . lol , what the hell is i'm gonna do with this jelly ? hahaha , me gedik as usual , nak buat homemade lip gloss . and yeah , by using this jelly like in this blog . Homemade Lip Gloss by ChichaCircle.com =)

 last but not least , cer tengok air kat bawah ni . pergh perghh , telan air liuq naa tengok coolblog ni . hahaha , cek puasa naa . kena tunggu buka satgi . " baby you light up my world like nobody else .. the way that you make my air liur menjejeh gets me overwhelmed "

sorrylah yer if the pictures are blury and tak berapa nak cantik . maklum , cek cuma pakai henpon murah je . adios amigos , assalamualaikum .

NOTE : ada sesiapa tahu tak kat mana nak cari brown paper bag kat arae Batu Pahat , Johor ni ? Thanxx =D